When it comes to female sex toys, we always hear about dildos and vibrators. Sometimes, maybe even wands.
Sure, dildos feel good when you drive it in and out of your vagina (or anus)... until your biceps burn.
Some days, we just want to sit back, relax and spasm our orgasms away. But self-pleasure is not as easy as it seems when you’re doing all the multi-tasking and hard work yourself.
Enter: thrusting dildos.
If you’re interested in getting your very first thruster but don’t know where to start, here’s a guide for you.
What is a thrusting dildo, exactly?
Like its name implies, it’s a dildo… that does the thrusting on its own.
A thrusting dildo is a self-penetrating sex toy designed to move in and out of your intended hole (whether it’s a vagina or anus).
Think: penetrative intercourse with a penis or strap-on dildo. The appeal is that you could do it partner-free, and even hands-free (if it has a suction-cup base).
Its thrusting mechanism takes you to a whole new world of internal, penetrative joys. You only have to hold it in place and let it pump inside you as you reach the big O.
The shaft vibrates as it makes its thrusting motions, which you can feel throughout the thruster’s body. These innovative sex toys also have different thrusting speeds, stroke lengths, vibrating patterns, and other tantalizing features.
And if you haven't noticed yet, TheThruster have specialised in those (just browse around the site to see all the awesomeness).
It’s like a sex machine, but handheld.
Sex machines (or fucking machines or rideable vibrators), if you’re not familiar, are mechanical devices built to simulate some physical sensations you get from partnered sex.
Just for fun you can look (on the Sexual Alpha website) how fucking machines compare against smaller thrusters in terms of specs and looks.
But sex machines are not beginner-friendly.
It’s a serious investment - you can’t carry it around in your purse (or even your suitcase) and it comes with a hefty price tag (many could easily go up to $1000).
Fortunately, handheld options like thrusters are available. It’s a fraction of the price, portable, does the job and more.
So, is a thrusting dildo for you?
If you say yes to any of the following questions, then heck yeah:
- Are you a lazy masturbator?
- Do you want to get pounded without doing all the pounding?
- Are you looking for a penetrative experience *almost* similar to a real penis?
- Do you want to upgrade from your plain ol’ dildo but not yet ready to commit to a full-blown sex machine?
- Are you ready to up your solo or couple play sessions?
How does a thrusting dildo work?
The short, layman explanation: Thrusting dildos are powered by a motor to drive its up-and-down thrusting movement.
The longer, more technical answer: Encased in its shaft’s casing, a small engine powers the thrusting dildo. What engineers call the “axial load” initiates the thruster’s internal machinery to make its upward and downward movements, mimicking the stroking motions of a penis in real-life sex.
In past decades, smaller batteries were not yet powerful enough to do this. But thanks to today’s technology, we can now replace bulky, pricey sex machines with more compact, handheld sex toys.
In the past, smaller batteries were not yet powerful enough to do this. But today’s technology can now replace bulky, pricey sex machines with more compact, handheld sex toys.
How to choose your first thrusting dildo
Before you hand over your card, think of what you want to get out of your first thruster.
Stick with a body-safe material
Thrusting dildos are often made with various materials to suit different designs, price ranges, and longevity.
We recommend staying away from dildos made from plastic and rubber. While they are typically cost-friendly, they’re also porous. Porous translates to “it traps bacteria even when it’s cleaned,” which is not safe when you’re inserting it inside your genitals.
Body-safe silicone is always top-recommended. It feels nice to touch, skin-safe and nonporous (meaning you can clean it and it’s easy to maintain).
Thrusting or pulsating
Not all thrusting dildos are made equal.
Some self-penetrating dildos give short, quick thrusts. Usually, this can feel underwhelming. Instead of “thrusting,” it feels more like “pulsating.”
However, some people get satisfaction from it.
But if you’re looking for long, deep thrusts, dildos like Velvet Thrusters understood the assignment. Each stroke reaches up to 3 inches deep in speeds of your choice.
The shape, design, and texture
In design, there are standard single-length shafts that mimic thrusting by moving back and forth. These are quite common, and they usually give that pulsating rhythm.
Meanwhile, extendable length thrusting vibrators are those that actually thrust. In Velvet Thrusters, it has an accordion-like structure on its base that extends and retracts. As it pumps in and out, it also generates a natural vibration on the shaft, providing a titillating sensation as it moves.
Another thing to consider is the variety in colors, textures and shapes.
Some are lifelike, while others have more unique designs with specific functions. For example, thrusters designed to stimulate the G-spot have a curved tip with a come hither motion to put pressure on the G-spot.
To use (or not to use) in the shower
Note that thrusters have an internal motor, which also reads “not safe for water.” But today’s toys are made more water-friendly.
When buying a thrusting dildo, check to see if it’s waterproof or water-resistant. Some models can be submerged in water, so you can use those in the bathtub or while showering.
Meanwhile, for some, it’s best to keep it away from water. Water-resistant thrusters allow cleaning, but should not be used in wet areas like the shower.
Budget - how much are you willing to spend?
Of course, you’ll want to consider the price.
Thrusters can range from $30 to thousands of dollars. Expensive ones don't always mean high quality, especially if they don't fit you well. At the same time, cheap ones are, well, cheap for a reason. They might be made from undesirable materials or weak motors.
As a beginner, consider how much you are willing to commit.
Are you just testing the waters? If so, you may start with various cheaper thrusters and test them out to see which one suits you best.
If you want more longevity, find a thruster that is well-made and offers good value. You can definitely tell if a thruster is good - when you clench its shaft, the motor doesn’t stop or slow down.
How to use a thrusting dildo
Thrusting dildos aren’t as intimidating as it seems. If you’ve used a dildo before, then you’d most likely know how to use a thruster.
Always lube up
Always use lube. Lubricants make any sexual activity, especially using toys, better. It reduces friction, so it avoids any feeling of discomfort during penetration.
It’s even more important if you’re going to use it on your rear. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate.
Use it like a regular dildo - at first
Acquaint yourself with the thruster first by using it as a regular dildo before turning it on.
Once you’re ready, turn the device on, keep it in place and let it pump inside you.
By taking the handwork from the equation, you can do more sensations like rubbing your clit, using an additional vibrator, playing with your nipples, or even sexting with a partner.
Beware of the noise
Thrusters can be noisy. It makes a queefing sound as it thrusts, and it gets louder as it goes faster.
It shouldn’t be a problem, however, if you plan to use it anywhere that affords you privacy.
Go hands-free
Use a suction-cup base.
If your thruster doesn’t come with one, you can purchase it as an additional sexcessory.
This allows you to go completely hands-free. You can mound it on a flat source like the floor, table, chair or wall, and let it pound you.
Clean it before putting it away
Cleaning your thrusting dildos after every use is crucial. Why, you ask?
Potential infections. Yikes!
Even if you only use your toy yourself, you could still introduce bacteria into your body if you don’t clean it. Bacteria could lead to UTIs, yeast infections and bacterial infections.
What does a thrusting dildo feel like?
Before using a thruster, it’s always best to set the right expectations.
The not-so good
Let’s get this out of the way: A thrusting dildo does not feel like getting penetrated from a penis would. But it’s close.
At the end of the day, it’s a device designed to simulate the feeling of having penetration from a living, breathing human. It might even feel robotic and repetitive.
Like any other sex toy, thrusters are meant to elevate the experience, not replace human partners.
The good
The joy of using sex toys is having more control of your pleasure and achieving sensations that no human partner can give.
On average, men thrust 48 times per minute.
Remember those times when we demand, “Faster!” Well, thrusters could do just that as thrusting dildos could go twice, even thrice, faster.
Velvet Thrusters, for example, reach up to 140 strokes per minute.
Unlike humans, thrusters can go as long as you do. So sit back and enjoy the ride as it takes you wonder by wonder over, sideways and under.
What actual users say
Here are what some users have to say:
u/OurFirstThrowawayNo9: “It’s like getting fucked and pounded.”
u/SuperSnowman1010: “I’m pleased with both AND they have gotten a lot of use. Just make sure you charge them! My dildo died when I was cumming so that was undesirable.”
u/MrsRobinsons1234: “It feels really good and just… relentless.”
Thrusting Dildo Recommendations for Beginners
The best thrusting dildo for G-spot stimulation isn’t the best thrusting dildo for anal play, which isn’t the best thrusting dildo for size royals… you get it. With the numerous types of and for thrusters, there’s definitely a good starting point depending on what sensation you’re looking for.
For beginner beginners
It’s always best to start small, especially if you’re a novice. The Thruster Mini Teddy is great for first-time users as it’s the smallest, the most affordable from the line, and the quietest.
It also offers value for its price with its built-in suction-cup base so you can use it completely hands-free.
For realistic sensations
If you have some experience in using dildos before and know what you want in a sex toy, then choosing your first thrusting dildo is not that much different from buying a regular dildo.
Velvet Prime Jackie feels very close to a penis, but even better. Its veiny texture and bulbous head stimulate your deep nerve endings that lead you to a heightened climax.
For G-spot stimulation
A girthy dildo with a pronounced head is best like Velvet Prime Nanci. It has a hooked tip that means serious business as it bends to a 90° angle.
Like other Primes, Nanci has a half-bendable, half-hard shaft that you can angle and bend to better access your G-spot and other internal hotspots.
For clit grinding
Clit stimulation is the powerhouse for most female orgasms. So if you don’t orgasm from penetration alone, get Velvet Prime Frankie in your o-game immediately.
Since Frankie is super flexible and bends at a 90° angle, you can rub your clit on its ridges while it's inserted for penetration.
For anal play
Unlike the vagina, the rectum doesn’t have an “end.” Hence, only use toys built for your bum - one that has a flared base or a base that’s wider than the thickest part of the toy.
Velvet Prime Walter is designed for anal play. It has a beaded design - it starts small, and the beads grow larger as it reaches its core. Now, imagine how it feels like when it’s thrusting in and out: pop-pop-pop.
A good in-depth review can be found on the Sexual Alpha website, sharing how the actual hands-on experience can feel & look like with Velvet Thruster.
Conclusion
Knowledge is pleasure.
It’s a shame how thrusters are quite underrated sex toys, given how great they feel. Think: vibration and penetration in one.
With the best of both worlds in between your legs, riding solo has never been this good.
What's next? Go on and explore the site, pick your next best friend.
