What Should I Know Before Buying My First Thrusting Dildo?

When it comes to female sex toys, we always hear about dildos and vibrators, but what about something more modern, new sex-tech like thrusting dildos?  As an experienced user, both solo and with my partner, I can provide detailed answers to many of these questions.

Thrusting vibrators and dildos are meant for internal stimulation, and in theory could be used vaginally or annaly. Most brands and models lack the physical torque required for anal thrusting.

Quick Reference. Thrusting dildos don't have a separate controlled vibrator; those are known as thrusting vibrators.  Thrusting dildos like the Prime series, which mimics the bells and whistles of a sex machine, and mini models are produced with penetration in mind. They don't stall when you clench your legs and thighs. Thrusting vibrators are more for vaginal pleasure with their fully waterproof bodies, and rabbit style vibrators for a blended orgasm, both internal and clitoral.

SIdebar. Suppose you don't enjoy penetration for any reason; numerous conditions physically cause pain, such as a shallow pelvic floor. In that case, you should consider a great vibrator or suction sex toy like our discreet Suck-O-Saurus; these are designed specifically for external clitoral stimulation. They work like magic!

 

The Joys of Modern Thrusting Sex Toys

Now, that's the thing; getting off quickly with an external vibrator or suction sex toy is easy, and having an internal, or vaginal orgasm takes a substantial amount of work. Especially when you have not found that "spot" to light up your own body's pleasure.

She likes textured, realistic, silicone dildos that feel great moving purposefully in and out of her vagina.  Many times, to have an internal orgasm with solo masturbation, my arm aches, and my wrist is stiff by the time I have gotten to the end. 

This is where modern sex-tech has evolved. Yes, fucking machines have been around for a long time, but they were big, bulky, floor machines that had to be plugged in. And the steel rod that it moves back and forth is unforgiving if you fall out of alignment. It can really hurt.

Note: This is actually a newer "fucking machine," from our house, in fact. You can see the problems.

So the wife and I designed our own thrusting dildos, which are magnificent! We came from manufacturing engineering and patented the use of a ball screw reverser for the drive mechanism. The same principle applies to a fishing reel; as you turn the knob, winding the reel one direction, the nut bounces back and forth on the screw. This saves energy from changing directions and, Voila, we invented the modern thrusting dildo that works for both men and women! 

Meet Velvet Thruster Prime

 

Now this handheld Thrusting sex machine has all the power of the past but in a friendly, "take me to bed" kind of package. Actually, we're fortunate enough to have a walk-in closet, and with kids at home, our closet gets a lot of use.

In any case, the Velvet Thruster Prime model allows you to quickly swap heads or tops, providing a wide range of fun and variety with different sizes, shapes, material softness, and colors to use at your leisure.  We typically start with Jackie or Frankie early in play and then move on to Sammie or Lewis from there. We both prefer to use the suction cup or long-reach handle for easier solo play. 

It takes a minute to get into the right spot for most users; some prefer a slight curve to rub the G-spot, while others prefer the "full" feeling of enormous size and girth. 

Yes, our thrusting dildos can curve while extended and moving back and forth. A super cool feature we engineered that's found in all our thrusting dildo models. The prime model offers the most flex; some heads flex more than others, as you can see from the picture above. From the Mini series, the XL is slightly longer than the TX, allowing it to have more flex.

Can My Man Make Me Have an Internal Orgasm?

Well, as you know, it isn't easy. Humans can stroke up to 140 strokes maximum, but at that pace, most men can only go like that for a minute before having to slow down. And really, it's not all about how fast you can go - hitting the right spot, or rubbing and grinding are all used to achieve vaginaly orgasm well. 

Out thrusting dildos are meant to complement your sexual pleasure routine. Sometimes, slow and steady movement is the best approach; other times, swift strokes are more desirable. Both the Prime and Mini models have a slow speed of 60 strokes per minute and a maximum of 140 strokes per minute. It's fun to feel the fast pace, but you'll likely find a way to mix it up with different shapes and speeds. 

We suggest using it with a partner as well. As two sexually active adults in our 50s, it helps extend our intimate playtime significantly. I use a thrusting dildo on my wife when I need to recharge, but she doesn't. This happens a lot, and this is why we know a lot about achieving internal vaginal orgasms.

She definitely enjoys the extra pressure that comes from grinding and rubbing, so she will use the flex and let the bumps of Frankie run back and forth against the upper vulva while enjoying the automatic thrusting of our sex toys. For us, we appreciate that the flex of the velvet thruster products allows us to manipulate that thrusting sex toy to hit just the right spot when extended. 

But self-pleasure isn’t as easy as it seems when you’re doing all the multitasking and hard work yourself, which is precisely where thrusting dildos come into play. After all, some days, we want to sit back, relax, and spasm our orgasms away while the dildo does all the work, including thrusting.

Make sure to get to the bottom of the blog and read about Thrusting Vibrators.

What are Thrusting Dildos?

A thrusting dildo is a self-penetrating or automatic sex toy designed to move in and out without you having to stroke it with your own arms and wrist. 

Thrusting vibrators add a separate controlled vibrator motor. These are great introductory sex toys and very economical to start your experience..

Key features to understand when considering a Thrusting dildo product are:

1. Stroke length. This is the actual movement length for each model - Prime models are up to 3" inches, Mini models are up to 2" inches, and Thrusting vibrators are 1" inch.
2. Stroke speeds. An average person can stroke their hips without fatigue at a rate of 40-80 strokes per minute; most thrusting dildos are set to 60 strokes per minute on the slow speed.  Men trying to have sex, thrusting more than 100 times in a minute, are going to fatigue fast. Even trying to maintain 120 strokes per minute for an extended period is exceptionally difficult.
3. No-stall motor. Smaller sex toys have smaller motors and will stall easily. Velvet Thruster products are patented with no-stall drive motors and are very good for anal and vaginal self-pleasure.
4. Powerful battery. To function well and be extremely strong, you need a 12V rechargeable battery at a minimum. The 7V motor is not strong enough for an advanced user.
5. Quiet or Loud. The bigger the motor, the louder the toy can be, depending on what speed you use and how much you increase the torque when masturbating. Torque increases when you clamp down on it internally while it's inside you. Also, when you are forcing a great deal of flex in the silicone dildo top while it pushes in and out, it will get louder. This is how it fights, not stalling. If you need a quiet model, choose one of our new thrusting vibrators.
6. Changeable tops and accessories. This only applies to the Velvet Prime series and would be considered the most advanced version of the thrusting dildo sex toy product very much like a floor-mounted sex machine would offer, except now in a handheld and rechargeable package.

 

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Beginner Tips for your Thrusting Dildo?

Think: penetrative intercourse with a penis or strap-on dildo. The appeal is that you could do it partner-free, and even hands-free (if it has a suction-cup base attached). When solo, I use my leg to block it while lying down and go full hands-free.

Most thrusting dildos don’t have the power needed for proper anal thrusting. Thankfully, the Velvet Thruster Prime and its respective Mini models do.

Its thrusting mechanism takes you to a whole new world of internal, penetrative joys. You only hold it in place and let it pump inside you as you reach the big O. 

The shaft will flex somewhat as you apply torque, allowing grinding and pressure at the vaginal opening if you like that extra feeling. 

When you're first learning on your own, expect it to take a few tries to get comfortable. Use lube as needed to make learning easy. 

Pro Tip: Hold it while thrusting in front of your hand and feel how it pushes back; it will bend back before it gives up, making the Velvet thruster special.

The patented drive screw creates some modest vibrations while it's creating that motion, but these are thrusting dildos, not vibrators. These innovative sex toys also have different thrusting speeds and stroke lengths per model.

And if you haven't noticed yet, Velvet Thruster has specialised in those (browse around the site to see all the awesomeness).

It’s like a sex machine, but handheld.

Sex machines (also known as fucking machines or rideable vibrators), if you’re unfamiliar, are mechanical devices that are built to simulate some physical sensations you get from partnered sex.

Just for fun, you can take a look at how fucking machines compare against smaller thrusters in terms of their specs and looks.

But sex machines aren’t beginner-friendly—it’s a serious investment to make. You can’t carry it around in your purse (or even your suitcase), and it comes with a hefty price tag (many models start at around $1000 and can go even higher).

Fortunately, handheld options like thrusting vibrators are much more accessible. These models are a fraction of the price and portable; they do the job well and can do so much more.

So, is a thrusting dildo for you?

If you say yes to any of the following questions, then heck yeah:

• Does your arm or wrist get tired, or are you a lazy masturbator?
• Do you want to get off without doing all the pounding?
• Are you looking for a penetrative experience similar to a real penis?
• Do you want to upgrade from your static silicone dildo but don't want a large or expensive sex machine?
• Are you ready to up your solo or couple play sessions?
• Do you want variety when enjoying self-pleasure?

How does a thrusting dildo work?

The short, layman's explanation: Thrusting dildos are powered by a motor to drive their up-and-down thrusting movement. What's unique about our patented drive system is that the motor spins the drive screw in one direction only, and the nut travels up and down without needing to change direction or lose momentum.

 

The longer, more technical answer: Encased in its shaft’s casing, a small engine powers the thrusting dildo. What engineers call the “axial load” initiates the thruster’s internal machinery to make its upward and downward movements, mimicking the stroking motions of a penis in real-life sex. 

In past decades, smaller batteries were not yet powerful enough to do this. But thanks to today’s technology, we can now replace bulky, pricey sex machines with more compact, handheld sex toys.

In the past, smaller batteries were not yet powerful enough to do this. But today’s technology can now replace bulky, pricey sex machines with more compact, handheld sex toys.

How to choose your first thrusting dildo

Before you hand over your card, think of what you want to get out of your first thruster.

Stick with a body-safe material.

Thrusting dildos are often made from various materials to suit different designs, price ranges, and longevity requirements.

We recommend avoiding dildos made from plastic and rubber. While they are typically cost-friendly, they’re also porous. Porous translates to “it traps bacteria even when it’s cleaned,” which is not safe when you’re inserting it inside your genitals.

Platinum cure silicone is always top-recommended. It feels nice to touch, being skin-safe and non-porous (meaning you can clean it easily and maintain it with ease). 

Thrusting or pulsating

Not all thrusting dildos are made equal. Some self-penetrating dildos give short, quick thrusts, and usually, this can feel underwhelming.

 

So instead of “thrusting,” it feels more like “pulsating.” However, some users derive genuine satisfaction from it.

 

But if you’re looking for long, deep thrusts, pulsing and thrusting vibrators, like those from Velvet Thruster, understand the assignment at hand. Each stroke reaches up to 3 inches deep at various speeds of your choice.

The shape, design, and texture

In design, there are standard single-length shafts that mimic thrusting by simply moving back and forth. These are common and typically feature a pulsating rhythm.

 

Meanwhile, extendable length thrusting vibrators are those that actually provide thrust. In Velvet Thruster’s models, they have an accordion-like structure on their base that extends and retracts.

 

As it pumps in and out, it also generates a natural vibration on the shaft, providing a titillating sensation as it moves in you.

 

Another thing to consider is the variety in colors, textures, and shapes; some are lifelike, while others have more unique designs with specific functions.

 

For example, thrusters designed to stimulate the G-spot have a curved tip with a slight come-hither motion, allowing for extra pressure to be applied to the G-spot.

Use this Thrusting Vibrator for the Shower

 

Note that all thrusting vibrators have an internal motor, which also reads “not safe for water.” However, today’s toys are designed to be a bit more water-friendly.

 

When buying a thrusting dildo, check to see if it’s waterproof or water-resistant. Some models can be submerged in water, allowing you to use them in the bathtub or while showering.

 

Meanwhile, for some, it’s best to keep them away from water. Water-resistant thrusters allow for easy cleaning, but they should probably not be used in wet areas like the shower for extended periods.

Your Budget - how much are you willing to spend?

Of course, you’ll want to consider the price before committing to making a purchase. Thrusting vibrators and dildos can range anywhere from as little as $30 for the most basic of mini models to potentially thousands of dollars for top-of-the-line complex machines.

 

Expensive doesn’t always mean high quality, especially if they don't fit you well. At the same time, cheap ones are, well, cheap for a reason.

 

For example, they might be made from less-than-desirable materials or feature weak motors, and neither is something you want inside of you.

 

As a beginner, consider how much you’re willing to commit to learning. Are you just testing the waters? If so, you may start with some more affordable thrusters and test them out to see which one suits you best.

 

For greater longevity, consider a well-made, high-quality thrusting vibrator that offers good value for your dollar. You can tell if a thruster is good if, when you clench its shaft, the motor doesn’t stop or slow down at all.  

 

The Velvet Prime model allows us to repair the motor handle by replacing damaged components whenever needed. We offer repairs for the motor handle at any time during ownership.

How to use a thrusting dildo

Thrusting dildos aren’t as intimidating as they seem. If you’ve used a dildo before, then you already have the basics of how to use a thrusting dildo or vibrator.

Always lube up

Always use lube before playing with a thrusting vibrator. Lubricants like Gleam make any sexual activity, primarily using toys, better. It reduces friction, so it avoids any potential feelings of discomfort during penetration.

 

It’s even more critical if you’re going to use it on your rear. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, and you can hurt yourself or a partner if you don’t take precautions.

Use it like a regular dildo - at first.

Please acquaint yourself with your new thrusting vibrator first by using it as a regular dildo before turning it on. Then, once you’re ready, turn the device on, keep it in place, and let it pump away inside you.

 

By taking the handwork out of the equation, you can do more sensations like rubbing your clit, using an additional vibrator, playing with your nipples, or even sexting with a partner.

 

In fact, some couples find it exciting to introduce thrusting vibrators into their shared bedroom routine, where it can free up hands for other kinds of touch or open the door to creative positioning.

Beware of the noise

No, we’re not talking about loud sex here. Thrusters can be noisy; they produce an almost whoosh-like sound as they thrust, and the noise level increases as the speed increases. 

 

It shouldn’t be a problem, however, if you plan to use it in a location that affords you some privacy, such as your bedroom or bathroom.

Go hands-free

Try to mix things up and use a suction-cup base. If your thruster doesn’t come with one, you can easily purchase it as an additional accessory, which allows you to go completely hands-free.

 

You can mount it on a flat surface, such as a floor, table, chair, or wall, and let it pound away to your heart’s content.

Clean it before putting it away

Cleaning your thrusting dildos after every use is essential to healthy use. Why is this? Potential infections—yikes!

 

Even if you only use your toy by yourself, you could still introduce bacteria into your body if you don’t clean it properly. Any looming bacteria could lead to UTIs, yeast infections, and bacterial infections.

What does a thrusting dildo feel like?

Before using a thrusting vibrator for the first time, it’s essential to have a clear understanding of what to expect and how it works best.

The joy of using sex toys is having more control of your pleasure and achieving sensations that people can’t provide.