What Is Pegging? Straight Anal Penetration

What if we told you that we know a secret to one of the most intense male orgasms possible. Any gentleman is going to be curious, but historically hetero men are hesitant to engage in prostate play. The act of anal penetration and prostate play can be a source of incredible pleasure... even for straight men. It's time to break the mold and get a partner involved and start experimenting with the pleasures of the P-Spot with pegging.

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What is pegging?

To simplify, pegging is the act of a female anally penetrating a man with a strap-on sex toy. This act is by no means a new invention, only recently has it started gaining mainstream traction having been mentioned in films like Deadpool and series like Broad City.

Being a heterosexual by definition means being attracted to the opposite sex, period. There is nothing that says a hetero man cant explore his own sexuality with the joys of consenting anal play. In fact, the prostate is a nerve epicenter and with proper stimulation can result in orgasms far more intense than a traditional ejaculation.

Reverse pegging as a Marital Aid

While frequently this act is described as a female performing int on a male, men can wear that strap on too and use it on their female partner for pleasure!  We recommend men pegging their female partners to extend the sex play sessions between you as a couple.  With age performance and endurance can reduce in both men and women, pegging can be used with the couple to lengthen play.  Typically the sheer eroticism that ensues helps men with erectile function have time to get the mind at peace in the bedroom and get naturally hard for penetration as well. It is simply another way to use a dildo on your partner, handless of course.  If you want to elevate it you can strap in a universal thruster and pop your favorite Vac-U-Lock dildo on, which will again reduce the amount of effort required to deliberately please your partner toward having an orgasm.  

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How To Try Pegging?

1) Talk with your Partner about Pegging

Whenever trying something new and exploring sexual boundaries it's always important to have open communication with your partner. Talking about hesitations, and what excites you about particular acts may raise your comfort level, and proposing new acts such as pegging might even excite your partner.

2) Take Your Time

We get it, everyone gets excited to try something new, but that doesn't mean rushing into it! In this situation, foreplay is your friend. Sometimes it can be exhilarating to give up stereotypical gender roles in the bedroom and hand the dominant reins over to your partner. Start with typical foreplay and work your way up to some light penetration. Start small, try having your partner start with a single finger, and work their way up to more. Always use a gratuitous amount of lube, this will reduce friction and make the experience 1000x more enjoyable... in fact without lube don't try pegging.

Take your time with acclimating your anus to penetration, there are various techniques your can practice with a bit of Anal Training.  Reverb by Lacier is a perfect introductory sex toy for anal and can easily be used solo to get comfortable with the unique sensation of anal penetration.


3) Use Quality Sex Toys

Pegging comes with four pieces of equipment: The dildo, a strap-on, an O-ring, and lube. Never heard of an O-ring? No worries. An O-ring goes around the base of the toy, and holds the dildo or toy in place so it doesn’t slide in the strap-on. You don’t always need separate O-rings for every harness, but if you’re planning to use toys in multiple sizes, you’ll want them.

For harnesses, we suggest letting your partner take the lead. She may find that one turns her on more than others.

If possible, buy a dildo that has a “slicker” feeling. This will make penetration easier, and it won’t require a frequent application of lube. 

4) Use Lubricant

As with virtually every sex act, we can think of, lubricant will increase the pleasure by multiple, however when practicing a bit of pegging, lube becomes essential. Just remember not all lube is created equal. We suggest using our water-based lube for sensitive-skin for the best results. Stay away from oil-based lubes as they do not work with silicone toys, and could result in a damaged sex toy.

Just remember the old phrase "more is better" this applies especially to lube, use a ton of it to make penetration pleasurable.

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