Masturbating as a Couple
Most people associate masturbation with a solo activity. However, it doesn’t have to be. Masturbating with your significant other can have a lot of benefits when done right. Instead of touching yourself alone as you may normally do, try suggesting that your partner join you. If it’s something that you and your significant other haven’t tried before, it may be a little nerve-wracking at first, but you won’t regret it.
Keep reading for some benefits of masturbating with your lover.
Adds Excitement
Switching up your routine to add in mutual masturbation can be very exciting. There are tons of different sex toys and positions to try out when touching yourselves together, and it can be a fun time figuring out what you and your partner want to incorporate into your sex life. Aside from the common acts like fingering or a hand job, sex toys are underrated when it comes to masturbation techniques. There are various couples masturbation toys that you can use to spice up things in the bedroom with your significant other. Watching each other pleasure yourselves can be a huge turn-on and can even be fun. Seeing who can hold out from orgasming first is a sexy game you both can try to keep things fresh and exciting.
Learn Turn on/off’s
Masturbating with your partner gives you both the opportunity to understand what each other’s turn-ons and turn-offs are. While you might know what arouses you, you may not have communicated that thoroughly to your partner, making mutual masturbation beneficial since they can see for themselves. Not only does it give you both crucial information, but touching yourselves can also let you into other sides of your sexuality that you may not have known were there. For example, maybe one of you discovers that you’re an exhibitionist and you like to “perform” for your lover. Or maybe there’s a certain speed or pressure that either of you desires to be touched. Whatever it is, it will give both of you much-needed information while having a fun time.
Couple Masturbation Improves Sex
Since you and your partner have a better insight into what each other likes, it can help when you’re having sex. For example, maybe one of you needs dirty talk or pain with pleasure to get turned on. Use this knowledge to your benefit and try some of these things when you’re in the bedroom. It will increase enjoyment in bed while also showing that you’re interested in making sure you both have a pleasurable time. There’s nothing hotter than an unselfish partner in bed who’s dedicated to making sure you both are enjoying yourselves. Masturbation can also help increase body positivity. Maintaining eye contact with each other in a vulnerable position while using a toy like Velvet Thruster Abbey can make you feel confident and sexy.
Masturbation as Foreplay
Exploring yourselves together as a couple can be a hot way of getting yourself ready for sex. While sex is a good main course, great foreplay can be just as exciting. Couples masturbation can help to prepare people who may have trouble getting properly aroused for sex. Many people experience sexual difficulties like vaginal dryness or erectile dysfunction due to an array of reasons, and it can affect their confidence in bed. "Lube for vaginal dryness or ed meds to enhance performance can improve these types of situations, but thorough foreplay can as well. Being properly aroused will increase anticipation for sex and allow for a more pleasurable time.
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